Friday, 20 July 2012

THE MARS VERSUS VENUS THEORY PART 1
                Basically it is universally known that ''men are from Mars and women are from Venus''. It is no news that men and women think, act, react to, understand and handle things  differently. This consequently brings me to the point I want to make that, every relationship, I believe, is plagued with what I call the ''Mars versus Venus Theory''. Shall I proceed to enlighten you on this theory?
                The ''she never appreciates anything I do versus he never does anything right theory''. Basically, the man feels he is under appreciated and the woman feels he is not doing enough for it to be appreciated. For example, a man takes time off his busy schedule everyday  to call his girlfriend and they talk for at most ten minutes. From the man's point of view, he should be appreciated for  taking time off his busy schedule to at least call her, while she feels he can do more than ten minutes. Guys; when a woman loves a man, she wants him close almost always.....she believes, the more time he is taking off work to call her, the more love he feels for her. In short, she is worth the sacrifice. So in Mars language, it's her way of saying ''I love you'' and ''I miss you''. And ladies, reality check: if you aren't going to appreciate a man for the little things he does, how do you expect him to do bigger things?
                 
 
            

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                 The ''I am not a mind reader versus he should know theory''. Basically, the man feels if she wants something done in a particular way, or if she wants him to do something, she should just say it instead of expecting him to know while she feels she does not need to tell him to do such stuff, after all he should be thoughtful. For example, lets take it as it would make her feel more special if he visited her more often. Thing is, she would not tell him that; she expects him to know that once she enjoys being with him, it's enough to indicate that she would want that more often while he feels if she enjoys seeing him, then he might as well make the little time they spend together worthwhile. Guys; you see, women love to be pampered. And she feels by telling you to do something she is taking the romance out of the whole thing. So in  Mars language, just think of how good it feels when someone does something you really like without you asking; you feel good that the person thinks of you that much right? You feel special. That is exactly how she wants you to make her feel and that is why she does not tell you... And ladies, let's be realistic here, how will he know what you want until you tell him? He sure isn't a psychic is he?
                


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                                                     WATCH OUT FOR PART TWO!!!!!!

4 comments:

  1. lady of modern acumen....gud.keep it writing....

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  2. Gabriel Kwasi Dwomoh23 July 2012 at 14:10

    Nessa I'm seriously loving your blogs. Incredible work. Keep it up because I'm monitoring everything and may even join you. lol :should I?

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  3. You definitely from PLUTO that's why you able to write such fantastic articles.lol

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  4. Nessa, please I want to read more...

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